Emotional Literacy;
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Emotional intelligence, "can matter as much
as IQ" in determining a person's well-being and effectiveness in life.
Daniel Goleman, Emotional
Intelligence. (1997)
Emotional literacy is defined
as emotional intelligence with a heart. In the book
Emotional Literacy I offer a love-centered approach to
emotional intelligence, developed over the last 35 years, which I call
Emotional
Literacy Training. This approach, based on Transactional Analysis and
Radical Psychiatry, inspired by the women's
and men's movements and informed by the works of Riane Eisler, Ronald Laing and Eric Berne
seeks to teach people the following skills:
1. Knowing what feelings we have, how strongly and why.
2. Caringly recognizing other people's emotions, their strength and reasons.
3. Developing the love-centered ability to express or hold back our feelings
so as to enhance
the quality of our lives and the quality of life of those around us.
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Emotional intelligence, is most effective
in improving people's lives, when developed with love as
the central, guiding emotion. (See Learning to Love
and Stroking: What's Love got to do With it? for
an elaboration of this view.)
Accordingly, "Opening the Heart" is
the first phase of emotional literacy training.
The major obstacle an
open-hearted way of life is the Stroke Economy,
a system of rules about affectionate behavior, enforced by the Inner
Critic which strangles our loving capacities. "Opening the Heart"
is designed to show people how to counter the restrictions of the Stroke
Economy and fully express and fulfill their needs for affiliation and
bonding.
The full description of the training program is contained in the
book Emotional Literacy; Intelligence with a Heart (click
here to order) available free, electronically through this web site (click
here). In addition you
can purchase a two disk DVD (
$60, WRITE
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information) of
a weekend training led by Claude Steiner in Berkeley. You may also obtain
free, electronically (click here)
or purchase, a packet of handouts used for the above emotional literacy
workshop. (click here, see item
#9)
A program to certify emotional
literacy trainers is available in Germany (click
here for information) and being developed in the
US. (WRITE
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You may also want to read and/or download the
following papers:
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1. Emotional
Awareness
2. Core concepts of a
Stroke-Centered Transactional Analysis.
3. Strokes,
The Stroke Economy and Opening the Heart,
4. Learning to Love,
5. Stroking: What's Love got to do
With it?
6. The Inner Critic or Critical Parent
7. The Warm Fuzzy Tale. This is a fable I wrote
many years ago (1960) which inspired the development of the emotional literacy training
program.
Brief Comments.
7. Emotional
Literacy; A New Language
8. What's Love Got to
do With It?
9. I do my
thing, You do your thing...
8. The 2003 updated version of Achieving Emotional Literacy
9. Notes for Philosophers. Philosophical issues that touch on
the basic assumptions of an emotional literacy training program.
10. Commonly Asked Questions and
Answers
You may also want to look
into
Emotional Literature.
Fiction and
poetry by Jenae Marks
The German emotional literacy web site www.emotionalekompetenz.net
and
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